On a first date I would be happy to go out to a movie and dinner or dancing, be polite and understanding, protect my date and kiss her on the cheek at the end of the evening and get her home safely.

Always best to have that nice informal dinner at an upscale restaurant to enjoy a relaxed conversation getting to know one another. There need to be no promises of course, but if we two enjoy the nicer things in life and mutual playfulness, we'll be perfect. Perhaps you are looking for a place to get away to, play out your fantasies with an experienced and caring man -- then return to your vanilla world with naughty memories.

Candlelight dinner, romantic boat ride..watching sunset, listening to soft music.

Know several quiet restaurants to allow for an open conversation, and watch the sun set. Perhaps a walk on the beach, and allow each of use to share our thoughts.

To be honest I'd like a first date to be just a quick coffee. Then, if we hit it off we could arrange a nice dinner somewhere. I don't know about you but for me there's nothing worse than going on a date, quickly realising that you're not compatible for whatever reason, and then having to sit making uncomfortable small talk for a couple of hours. I would much rather meet for a quick coffee at a location convenient to you and see if we click.